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I think this is our moving day

From what they tell us, we will be in Indy this afternoon- but we will wait and see. I realized that I have had the advantage of being one of the few people who have been with Jenny all these weeks (it has almost been 3 weeks). We obviously had our initial grief and the expected dealing with the general unknown. However, I have aquired a real peace about our future and our family doing well with our new challenge. I know Jenny will progress much more than doctors let on. Our faith is going to play a huge part in that. Unfortunately, most of our friends and some family have not seen Jenny since before the stroke. I realize until they see Jenny and realize she is doing better each day, that it is difficult.

We have actually had a bunch of times where Jenny is laughing (a quiet laugh with a huge smile) at stories, jokes, and the situations that come up. Yesterday, she coughed and ended up clamping down on her bottom lip with her teeth. I saw the pain in her face and helped free the lip. Once it was done, she just laughed on how silly the situation was. She cries too. It is hard for her to talk about her hobbies, primary calling, or other lifestyle changes without choking up. She is getting better as she gets use to things. When a movement occurs that is voluntary, we celebrate, and you can see it in Jenny’s eyes that she did it on her own. She is proud and excited as well. I have found myself talking to family or friends who just found out about Jenny who obviously try to say the right things about the initial stroke. I feel torn with being somber when discussing Jenny with others for the 1st time, but yet excited about the progress that just occured. I would imagine that when others are able to visit, Jenny will get emotional (mostly because visitors are crying as they see her for the first time), but the mood is usually returned to laughing and celebrating. We are so blessed with what we have been given, despite the hardships we know we will face.

Saturday/Sunday News

Jenny was a bit congested Saturday and more tired than normal, but the infectious disease docotrs feel she is free of anything contageous. As for Sunday, Jenny is still sleepy, but feels better. Little or no congestion and she has been great with her blood pressure. Her Neurologist did not appear to know she was making voluntary arm movements, and she was able to do right and left side muscle contractions on her arm. He asked if she could move her legs or feet and we told him that she could not, but when asked to try, Jenny made ever so slight movements in her left foot . The neurologist felt this was an excellent sign and sounded very positive for the first time. They feel she is ready to go to Indy on Monday if all stays the same.

It’s raining in Cleveland, but the sun in shining on Jenny

Jenny’s temp and blood pressure are fine now- just a few hours too late. However, she is making voluntary arm movements when you ask her. She can move her arms one at a time just enough to definately see that she has movement. The nurse was so proud and told us about it once we got back from lunch and Jenny is proud too every time she shows someone. The nurse claims she was able to move the fingers in the right hand. Most of the arm movement comes from the shoulders, but you can see her arm muscles flex when she tries. I guess my day is pretty good after all.

Still here

If you read the last entry, you may have remembered that Jenny hated my April Fools jokes. It seems like we got a delayed April Fools from the hospital when they said yesterday that we were going home, but they informed us that Jenny is not able to transfer today (Friday) due to low blood pressure and a midgrade fever. It was like getting a kick to the stomach. This is our second delay and since transfers do not happen over weekends, they will try again on Moday. Jenny took it better than I expected. We both miss seeing the kids who initally were only to be home a couple days before us. Now we are on a second delay. Anyhow, she states she feels good, but the hospital is being cautious.

April 1 2004

First of all, I have to thank Jenny’s brother Don for this great web site. As a matter of fact, I appreciate all the things that family and friends have done, and are doing, in our behalf. Jenny’s health has been up and down when it comes to bacteria and fever. As for now, it looks like she will go home to Indy Friday 4/2/04. She will actually be going to St Elizabeth Ann Seton for long term acute care. Jenny’s spirit has been much better lately. She hit the realization point about her condition a few days ago. The last couple days have had some points of joking around (on our part) and silent laughter (on Jenny’s part). She has pushed her toungue out and smiled on a few occassions that were voluntary movements. It sounds like a small thing, but huge in the evolution of her rehab.

Her respiratory sounds are good and her health is great- except for the obvious. She seems to swallow and she does not need a reperator. Jenny has been listening to some music selections provided by her Reiser cousins that seems to comfort her. We watched a favorite tv show together and she is still giving me orders. She finally demanded that we change our way of spelling with “blinks”. She did her own way until we finally told her that we give up and she is in charge. She requests to hear primary music, but goes to tears right away. She really misses her chorister calling in church and the kids she works with. I think she still has not got too tired of me hanging around her bed all day, but she really misses the kids who went back to Indy a week ago. Hopefully, the next entry will tell you that we are back in Indy. By the way, Jenny does not appear to like April Fools jokes this year- but it was okay when I played them on her mom.