We continue to try new things with Jenny to see what she is capable of. As with every day, life is a struggle and rarely a time without some degree of suffering. We look forward to any success and progress to be hope and joy. Typically, Jenny becomes tearful as she tries new things and they don’t work as well as she she would like. For instance, I had her try to hunt and peck at a key board to see how well she could do. She was able to push keys, but her hand or fingers would accidentally push other keys or functions that would hinder her efforts. Aside from her frustrations, the good news is that she has the rough ability to use a key board!

The other good thing we tried was to have her sit in her wheelchair without any head support. Jenny easily watched television and the only reason I put it on after about 30 minutes was because she needs to be tilted back in her chair every 30 minutes to prevent pressure sores. She indicated that she could have done it continuously for much longer.

Jenny has also been without her catheter for the past week (which Jenny is so pleased that she does not mind me telling). She came home from the hospital with the catheter, trache, and feeding tube. All she has left is the feeding tube, and that is really only there for convenience. If we needed, Jenny could take all fluids, medicines, and foods orally. Since the fluids are given orally by a small dropper right now, she is better off with the tube, but her fluid intake is increasing orally each day. Not having the catheter has presented difficulties with restroom visits. Helping her is not a problem, it is getting my attention that was our first big obstacle. The door bell on her chair seems to help, as well as sign language. The second obstacle is getting she and I into a public restroom together. So, until we figure where all the family restrooms are, and work out a more efficient bathroom routine, we do not stray from home as long.

I wanted to catch the new CSI New York this week, so I watched it after Jenny went to bed. It was about a woman forced into a “locked-in syndrome”, so I am glad Jenny did not watch it. Anyhow, seeing this actor portrayal of a locked-in person reminded me of how much progress Jenny really has made. I could list pages of things Jenny is doing since she was first in the hospital that she is not supposed to be able to do. After seeing her MRI, other than a pure miracle, I do not see how she is able to have the voluntary movement that she has with all her extensive damage. I continue to believe that we have been blessed with so much since her stroke.

Jenny continues to improve with her ASL. Before, she could spell out a sentence in a few minutes, but she can now sign it in a few seconds. I still get a bit confused when her hand is tired from a long day of therapy. Jenny knows, or has been taught by friends, a few other signs- like “bathroom”. Jenny liked to teach the primary kids how to sing songs while signing in ASL, and it seems to have really paid off. Many people have asked if they need to sign to Jenny, which they don’t (her hearing is the ONLY thing that has held up) during this whole experience. Her eye sight has improved slightly in the past couple weeks, but reading is still a little difficult.

We went to the eye doctor, who adjusted her prescription, so Jenny sees even clearer. She has been wearing contacts occassionally, but she is now in a pair that can be left in for a week. This way, she can wake up and see the world and not rely on others to put her glasses on. Jenny as wanting this appointment, but like with all her doctor visits, it was stressful and emotional even though things went smooth.

I put a wireless door bell on Jenny’s wheelchair so she can alert us when she needs help. It was another step to feeling more independent. She loved it. I did not tell the kids and Jenny sounded the bell and the kids ran to the door. Jenny had fun with it and the kids ran back and forth thinking that someone was hiding in the bushes. All the while, Jenny was in tears laughing.

Yesterday was the 6th month since Jenny’s stroke. It seems like so long ago, but it is a relativley short period of time in relation to how long Jenny will be progressing to her full potential. It is too long for Jenny, but she will admit to increased progress lately. It is exciting to see what new things will be done by Jenny each and every day. The movements seem to be getting bigger and better and they surprise Jenny more than anyone. Today, Jenny had a nice visit with lots of friends and family, as well as being able to go out to eat with our extended family. The woman has a huge appetite and I could not feed her fast enough. I love going out into public with her and I am glad she feels more comfortbale doing so. I’m so proud of Jenny and all she has achieved so far.

While demonstrating her ability to push the exercise bike pedal down with each foot, she amazed everyone by completing a few revolutions on the bike without help from anyone. I have only seen her push the pedal down and then stop. She still hates the bike exercises, but is doing great.

Jenny has also been doing some communicating with her friend using sign language. I have seen her do it, but it did not look like something that would work well- despite being told else wise by those signing with her. Well, I came to the realization, while watching her brother learn sign from her, that this really works great. I can not believe how good we communicate now by signing (well, she signs and I interpret outloud). She struggles a bit with some letters. Instead of using her pinky to make an “i”, she uses her ring finger and her “y” looks like she is hitch hiking. Once that is understood, there is no problem. The good thing is that many of her friends know sign language- at least the alphabet. To make things better, I like that her hand will be getting stronger with more use. So, I publicly apologize to Laura- who tried to convince me of this sooner.