April 29, 2005

Jenny experienced a life long dream of seeing her long time love (Donny Osmond) in concert a couple nights ago. We were invited by some wonderful friends who also share a fondness for Donny. I don’t want to put words in another man’s mouth and declare him a groupie, but the husband of Jenny’s friend is a subscriber to the Donny website, has been to another Donny concert, purchased purple socks for the event, and has bought a fare share of Donny memorbillia. He will remain nameless but the evidence speaks for itself. For me, it was like meeting Jenny’s first boyfriend, so I was a bit jealous. Feel free to ask her about her Donny poster that she had as a kid. Jenny had a great time and I appreciate great people like these friends who continue to show such great love to Jenny in so many ways.

I wish I could report some new and incredible speech sounds or voluntary movements. Jenny continues to become stronger in the exhisting movements. Another friend (not a Donny groupie) who helps us with our signing skills made the comment of how Jenny has a much better range with her arm since he saw saw her a couple weeks ago. Jenny is becoming easier to communicate with since her signing has been given the extra boost by this movement. We are slowly adding signs to our vocabulary to hopefully get rid of finger spelling all the time. I tend to look up words she spells most and we work on those.

April 20, 2005

We are just doing our normal therapies and daily routine lately. Our biggest excitement is that we nailed down a date in which we will move. June 20th is the day we leave Indy. We are in a mad dash to get things ready for the big day. Jenny looks forward to working on her computer each day and I am glad she has that outlet. I am still learning that I ned to be careful what I ask for, because I usually do get it. I requested that Jenny be more assertive and let me know what she wants and to not let up until people are aware. Well, I get a mailbox full of e-mails with reminders and requests, as well as lengthy reports of how she feels. It is kind of nice to get this kind of real detail, but now I get into trouble for not following through.

April 12, 2005

Jenny has a new laptop that contains a software program that speaks what she types. This is something we have waited a long time to happen. It has wireless capabilities so she can drive around the house with her lap top. I downloaded all our digital pics on it and a few hundred songs that she could enjoy. I transfered her Word documents so she can continue with her writings and all. This is a great boost since traveling use to leave her unable to do anything- as well as being able to speak to the kids- who are still learning ASL. Jenny was even able to participate more in our primary class at church. She asked the questions to the kids and chose who would answer. As I suspected, the children were more attentive as they tried to hear what the computer voice was saying (the voice is not always the easiest to understand). I never saw more attentive kids in my life. It is still new and not always the easiest to use since it has to be on her lap or tray. She prefers the larger screened computer that is hooked up to the television, but she does well on the lap top. Best of all, the laptop is a Mac so it does not crash all the time like the Windows computers do. This is highly frustrating to her since she is unable to fix the crashes on her own. Taking care of this little problem is actually a huge thing for her.

April 4, 2005

We have returned from two consecutive trips out of town. Jenny continues to become more excited about our move to Austin since returning and seeing it again. The kids like all the new things and their new neighborhood. It is difficult to travel because there are so many things that most people would not think about that we have to address throughout the day. Jenny likes being back with her power chair and computer. Otherwise, she is at the mercy of others to move and entertain her. Jenny has made some really good voice sounds lately. She does best when laying down, so I usually hear more since I am with her when she is going to bed and is waking up. I am hopeful that this is part of her gradual improvements as well. Travels also interfere with our home physical therapy, but Jenny seems to do well from the rest and has demonstrated improvements regardless.

March 23, 2005

Jenny’s progress continues- slow and steady. She is now to the point that she can do some exercises without anyone needing to position her or set up a piece of equiptment. She is typing more, and getting a bit faster. She researches anything everything and has signed herself up on a stroke support e-group site. I get e-mails concerning cool/helpful things that Jenny looks up. She definately has a vast knowlegde of resources that are available and knows how to access them.

I finally beat Jenny in Mancalla (best 2 out of 3). We have not played in over a month or two and she is much stronger and has better dexterity. I think I caught her in a weak moment.