THIS MAY BE UNIQUE 2 ME, SINCE I CAN’T TALK: ASK, NEVER ASSUME. IF I CRY, ASK IF U SHOULD WIPE MY TEARS…MOST LIKELY, I DON’T WANT HELP, DUE 2 MY CONDITION. IF I STRUGGLE, ASK. MAYBE I WANT 2 STRUGGLE, & MAYBE I DON’T. OTHERS CAN ASK 4 HELP. I CAN’T, UNLESS I STOP STRUGGLING, & I DON’T LIKE 2 GIVE UP! ETC.

OF COURSE, U DON’T NEED 2 ASK ABOUT THE OBVIOUS…I.E. IF MY PARALYZED FOOT FALLS OFF IT’S FOOTREST, U CAN PUT IT BACK ON, IF I’M HEADED 2WARDS A DOOR, U CAN OPEN IT, ETC.